Reveal Your Real.
KALĪDE
Coaching & Consulting
Reveal your real.
Transform awareness into action.
Catalyze the unconventional.
The results you’re getting are reflections of the systems, stories, and strategies you’re running—internally and externally. When the status quo stops working, it's time to hack the patterns, shift the narrative, and infuse progress with purpose.​
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I partner with bold, driven leaders and small business owners who are ready to swap band-aid fixes and gimmicky advice for insights and strategies that actually work. Through sharp strategy, seasoned guidance, and true partnership, I help people like you cut through the surface, reveal their real, and catalyze conscious decision-making that drives growth and transformation within themselves and in their organizations.
I get in the trenches with you—to challenge, support, and help you brave uncharted territory. I am committed to helping you gain clarity, forge new paths, navigate challenges, and implement change.
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This work isn't for the weak of heart. We get raw. We play with fire—and then we fan the flames. Transformation doesn't have to be painful, but it rarely happens in your comfort zone.
Catalyzing real change starts by being radically honest about where we're stuck, struggling, or wanting more. ​There's no shame here—just exploration. Perceived shortcomings, problems, blind spots, and weaknesses are fertile ground for awareness, growth, and progress. If you're ready to dig in and do the work, I'm here to help.
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My approach is built on authenticity, strategic praxis, bold action, and genuine human connection. It's about empowering you to lead your business, your team, and your life from a place of clarity, strength, and purpose.
What I Do
I help business owners and leaders:​
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Uncover blind spots
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Design human-centered systems
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Build leadership capacity
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Align vision, operations, and culture
Whether you need executive coaching, organizational clarity, or just someone to help you figure out the next right move—this is the place to start.
My Edge
I bring a unique combination of lived experience, formal training, and practical wisdom to the work we'll do together.​
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25 years of Marine Corps leadership
My background in military intelligence sharpened my ability to see patterns, assess complex situations quickly, and make strategic decisions under pressure. I learned how to cut through noise, spot what others miss, and lead teams in high-stakes environments where trust, adaptability, and clear communication made the difference between mission success and failure. That kind of clarity isn't just useful in the field—it's essential in business. I bring that same analytical depth, strategic thinking, and the kind of leadership that moves people—and organizations—forward to the work I do with my clients.
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Two decades of entrepreneurial success
I've built and run multiple successful businesses from the ground up—without outside funding, big teams, or easy roads. I understand the challenges and realities of being a small business owner because I've lived them. You won't have to explain the grind to me.
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ICF-accredited coaching
Anyone can call themselves a coach. ICF-accredited coaches are rigorously trained, tested, and held to a global standard. We're grounded in evidence-based practices, committed to ethics, and equipped to create real, lasting transformation—not just surface-level support.
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Doctoral-level expertise
My advanced, research-based education in human behavior, cultural anthropology, and social dynamics reflects a deep, interdisciplinary mastery. This academic foundation gives me the strategic frameworks to help illuminate the patterns that drive individuals and organizations.
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An action-driven systems-thinker
I see the connections between people, processes, and culture—and I don't just stop at insight. I help you implement real, sustainable change that aligns with your vision, identity, and values.
Consulting Services
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Nothing changes
if nothing changes.
Awareness
Clarity
Strategy
Transformation
About Antoinette
MY MISSION IS...
USMC, Ret. Adapted Marine Corps truisms like "adapt and overcome" into "pivot on purpose." I combine decades of experience driving mission accomplishment and leadership development, with... to help people turn awareness into action.
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Entrepreneur
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Mother
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Coaching Services
Coaching is not advice-giving. It's not therapy. There's no hierarchy or power dynamic. It is forward-looking, strength-based, and driven by curiosity. Coaching is a relationship and process for people who desire support in deepening their self-awareness, catalyzing change, and reaching goals. As a coach, I bring explorer energy.
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Sometimes we operate on autopilot, unaware of what’s going on within ourselves—unaware of the filters, narratives, limiting beliefs, energetic stuck points, etc. underlying our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Deepening self-awareness means becoming aware and mindful of those.
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Coaching might be right for you if:
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- You want someone to help you process your thoughts and ideas.
- You want to have someone shine a light on your blind spots.
- You want to gain clarity so you can move forward with intention and alignment.
Consulting Services
Consulting focuses on assessing problems, providing possibilities, making recommendations, and building solutions. It draws heavily on expertise and provides the guidance and tools to most effectively execute strategies. It often involves teaching processes or methods. As a consultant, I bring detective energy.